Motivations of an Enneagram Type 9

Enneagram Type 9, often referred to as "The Peacemaker" or "The Mediator," is motivated by several core desires and fears that shape their personality and behaviors:

  1. Desire for Inner Peace and Harmony: Type 9s have a deep-seated desire for inner peace and emotional stability. They strive to avoid conflict and maintain a sense of harmony both within themselves and in their relationships.
  2. Avoidance of Conflict and Disruption: They have a strong aversion to conflict, discord, and anything that disrupts their inner tranquility. Type 9s may avoid expressing their own preferences or opinions to prevent disagreements.
  3. Need for Comfort and Stability: Type 9s seek comfort, routine, and a sense of security in their lives. They value stability and prefer environments where they feel safe and at ease.
  4. Desire for Connection and Belonging: They value connection with others and seek to maintain harmonious relationships. Type 9s often prioritize creating a sense of belonging and inclusiveness in their social circles.
  5. Fear of Loss and Separation: Underneath their desire for peace, Type 9s fear loss, separation, and disconnection from others. They may suppress their own needs or desires to avoid potential conflict or rejection.
  6. Tendency to Merge with Others' Agendas: Type 9s have a tendency to merge with the preferences and agendas of others in order to maintain harmony and avoid conflict. They may struggle with asserting their own boundaries and desires.
  7. Easygoing and Patient Nature: They are typically easygoing, patient, and accommodating. Type 9s often go with the flow and adapt to the needs and preferences of those around them.
  8. Desire for Wholeness and Integration: Type 9s strive for inner integration and wholeness. They may engage in activities that promote relaxation, inner reflection, or spiritual growth to achieve a sense of inner harmony.

Understanding these motivations helps to appreciate the calm, supportive, and adaptable nature of Type 9s, as well as their desire to create a peaceful and harmonious environment both internally and externally.

About The Motive Guide

The Motive Guide is an Enneagram Workshop Leader and Coach based in Tampa FL. Christie leads impactful Enneagram team building workshops and engages in transformational Enneagram coaching. The Motive Guide brings the Enneagram to various locations throughout the United States and internationally. Some notable local areas: Tampa, St Petersburg, Clearwater, Orlando, New Port Richey, Miami, Jacksonville, Ft Myers, Sarasota, and Bradenton.

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